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The Crab Mentality – Why we pull others down even when we claim we want everyone to rise

Posted on February 10, 2026February 10, 2026 By DesiBanjara No Comments on The Crab Mentality – Why we pull others down even when we claim we want everyone to rise
The Crab Mentality – Why we pull others down even when we claim we want everyone to rise

There is something unsettling about how people react when someone close to them begins to grow, change, or rise beyond what feels familiar. It is not always loud hostility or open jealousy, but rather a subtle, almost invisible resistance that shows up in jokes, comparisons, doubts, and passive discouragement. This pattern is so common that…

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